We are all impressed by demonstrations of ability. Pro athletes, computer whizzes, math geniuses, bold entrepreneurs, accomplished musicians, gifted writers -- these people are widely held in admiration because we appreciate their extraordinary aptitudes. And we envy them a little, too. You'd be hard-pressed to find someone who didn't wish that they were a little smarter, a little more creative, a bit better at communicating or perhaps more socially skilled.
So you would think being told that, due to practice and learning, you have gotten smarter(or more creative, eloquent or charming) would be welcome news. Don't we all want to improve? And aren't we all happy when we do? Yes... and no.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/heidi-grant-halvorson-phd/fixed-abilities_b_862140.html
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